Random Fabulosity: February 2010

Created and Maintained by: Andrea

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Some people!

Today I'm taking a cue from the lovely @maddiemarie and talking about people who are just plain well annoying! I am annoyed on a daily basis by humanity and I often just try to ignore it but sometimes I just can't.

The other day someone who will remain nameless decided to respond to one of my random tweets. Their response was 4 tweets long and just basically bashed me for my short and non-offensive original tweet. I get it everyone has their opinion but I wasn't asking for yours nor did I need to be told I was an idiot in as many words. I use my twitter as a way to get information on my favorite things and to chat with great people all over the world. I do not use it as a tool to teach others or to be taught from, so please don't annoy me with your opinion unless I ask for it!

And while I am ranting I just wanted to add those of you who drive 30mph in the snow in a 4 wheel drive vehicle when the roads aren't even bad, get the eff off the road. I will ride your ass till I can pass you and I'll be ok with it, because I have lived in the snow state all my life and I KNOW how to drive in it. Shit I could drive my rear wheel drive Mustang better in it than you can in your Chevy Silverado. So next time you decided you want to drive 30 and get in my way...find a new way to work that doesn't involve being in front of me.

Monday, February 1, 2010

Shit I do to myself

So today was suppose to be a great day, I got tickets to the Paramore concert and order 2 new pairs of shoes. One pair perfectly matches the dress I'm wearing to my friend Amanda's wedding this coming weekend. Anyways my day got more lame the longer it went on.

I'll give you the background info first...basically my best friend and my husbands' best friend use to date each other, happy in love for two years and living together everything ended when he cheated on her at MY wedding. I'm gonna give everyone a code name so you can keep up... my bff is "Shannon", hubs bff is "John". So Shannon flips out during my wedding b/c she caught John and (my hubs co-worker) "Candy" making out. At this point I went on my honeymoon and came home to help Shannon move out, I then refused to speak to John for months and basically would not allow him at our home. I finally realized I needed to be an adult and started to let him come hang out again..but just him (he was now living with Candy). Months go by and John keeps telling me how much he misses Shannon..they end up back together this past summer. It only lasted 3 months before John was back with Candy.

I have tried my best to remain on Shannons side during this while respecting the fact that this is my husbands best friend and his friend whom he works with everyday. Although Candy works with my husband she is not my friend and completely understands that I may never become more than an acquaintance if that, but John and I have been friends since I forgive him for the wedding incident.

So now another 6 months have went by and husband and I are planning a trip to Jamaica. Somehow John decided he wanted to go and my husband is all about it, only problem is I have to tell Shannon what is going on. Today I did that and explained everything the best I could and told her I understood if she was mad at me, I said I was sorry. Now I realize if it were me I'd be pissed too but the problem is she won't even respond to my email and is posting random facebook statuses about how angry she is. All I wanted was a response something along the lines of "I am pissed and it's gonna take me a while to get over this but I get that you are in a hard spot". Is that too much to ask? What am I suppose to do, always fight with my husband because these two people we love hate each other now???

Anyways I just needed somewhere to speak my mind. I hope she forgives me she's a great girl and I really am sorry.